Sept. 1, 1977: A signature moment in time from Dr. Renée Richards

Dr. Renée Richards

Put in the most basic of terms, it was a tennis match.

Dr. Renée Richards, a long, lean unseeded southpaw, vs. Virginia Wade, the prim-and-proper Wimbledon champion from England and third seed at the U.S. Open.

When the two women stepped onto centre court at the West Side Tennis Club in Forest Hills, New York, on Sept. 1, 1977, a gathering of 12,021 patrons awaited, many of them there for the tennis but an undetermined number of curiosity-seekers anxious to see a Barnum & Bailey sideshow.

Richards described it as “a zoo-like atmosphere.”

As it happened, Wade required just one hour and one minute to dispatch her much-ballyhooed foe, 6-1, 6-4. Game, set and match. No muss, no fuss. (Richards likely spent more time removing her tennis togs, showering and changing into street clothes afterwards.)

But to call it just a tennis match is to say Neil Armstrong went for a short stroll around the block.

There were numerous layers to the events of that day 46 years ago, and they can’t be measured merely in the reciting of a scoreline and the time Wade and Richards spent shuffling to and fro on a clay tennis court.

Predictably, the match became a media event,” is how Barry Lorge described it in the Washington Post the next day. “A swarm of photographers, broadcasters and reporters were on hand to record the details of what was purposed to be a grand gesture for human rights by some, and a freak show by others.

But the public and the players treated it as exactly what it was—a first-round match that turned out to be less interesting than it might have been because Richards was too tentative in her shotmaking and too slow afoot to offer much resistance to Wade’s barrage of attacking strokes and drop shots.”

The Association Press delivered this review:

Staid old Forest Hills had weathered its circus match, a centre court duel between a 43-year-old transsexual and the reigning Wimbledon titleholder, Britain’s Virginia Wade, and the eagles atop the famous concrete horseshoe didn’t come tumbling down.

It was historic. It was largely uneventful. It was sad.”

Notably, the AP devoted a paragraph to Richards’ attire and adornments, writing: “She accentuated the feminine touches. Long gold rings dangled from each ear. Her dress was smart white with black trim, a black and red band around the waist. Lace panties peaked from beneath her ballerina skirt. A stylish white hat, with a bow in back, made her look even taller.”

There was no such commentary on Wade’s fashion awareness. Just remarks on her tennis prowess.

There was something depressing about what should have been a pleasant sports frolic in the sun,” the AP article continued.

Sad? Depressing? Circus act? Freak show?

Like I said, layers.

Richards, or course, had spent the first 41 years of her life as a boy and man, Richard Raskind, one-time captain of the Yale men’s tennis team, prominent eye specialist, husband and father. Richard became Renée in 1975 and, post-gender affirmation surgery, petitioned for entry into the U.S. Open women’s draw the following year. She was rejected.

Persistent, Richards took her crusade to the New York Supreme Court and, two weeks in advance of the 1977 Open, Judge Alfred M. Ascione ruled in her favor.

When an individual such as plaintiff, a successful physician, a husband and father, finds it necessary for his own mental sanity to undergo a sex reassignment, the unfounded fears and misconceptions of defendants must give way to the overwhelming medical evidence that this person is now female,” Judge Ascione wrote in a 13-page decision.

I was a young sports writer at the time, in my mid-20s and working the tennis beat at the Winnipeg Tribune, and I recall a natter I had one night with two colleagues who suggested the Richards ruling would sound a doomsday alarm for the Women’s Tennis Association.

“It’ll be the end of women’s tennis,”one of them predicted.

“Don’t be ridiculous,” I said. “There won’t be swarms of 200-pound guys putting on skirts just to win a tennis tournament. I’ll be shocked if there’s one guy. There’s a lot more to changing sex than a tube of lipstick and nail polish. That’s not how it’s done.”

“How would you know what’s involved?”

“I just know.”

I didn’t clue them into the gender dysphoria that had been gnawing at me, like a dog with a chew toy, since age 8 (that would be my secret for 50 years). Nor did I mention that I’d studied Christine Jorgensen, the American GI who skirted the globe in pursuit of gender affirmation procedures. I simply allowed the natter to dissolve itself.

But I was intrigued by Renée Richards’ story.

Perhaps the Associated Press and Washington Post were accurate in describing the Richards-Wade match as a circus act and freak show on Sept. 1, 1977. But sad and depressing? On what grounds?

If anything, it was cause for celebration, at least from my perch.

Richards was female and had arrived at the pinnacle of women’s tennis, exchanging ground strokes with Wade and Chrissie Evert and Martina Navratilova and Billie Jean King et al. She played the U.S. Open five times—the Wade match 46 years ago being her first and a 4-6, 6-2, 5-7 loss to Andrea Leand in 1981 her last—and she achieved a world No. 20 ranking in February 1979.

Most important, she won a landmark human rights court case that gave rise to hope and possibility for those battling the beast that is gender dysphoria.

The sports landscape has shifted, of course, and right-wing politicos have turned the transgender issue into a battle ground, most notably targeting athletes from the grassroots to the elite levels. Their weapon of choice is the same tired, old anti-trans tropes that forecast cataclysmic consequences for humanity.

But they can’t take away the signature moment in time that Dr. Renée Richards gave the transgender community 46 years ago.

The trans are coming! The trans are coming! Politicos and wrinkled rock stars sound the alarm

Name five elite female transgender athletes, the operative word being “elite.”

Go ahead. I’ll wait…still waiting.

Chances are you can’t do it (unless you’re a regular visitor to Outsports), because they’re as rare as an honest politician.

Yet, if we are to listen to the braying classes, you’d swear the Female Transgender Athlete (FTA) is the greatest threat to humanity since JFK and Nikita Khrushchev played a game of chicken with nuclear bombs in the early 1960s. Or at least since Rupert Murdoch unleashed Fox News on an unsuspecting public.

This past June, for example, we heard U.S. presidential wannabe Nikki Haley declare the FTA to be “the women’s issue of our time…the idea that we have biological boys playing in girls sports.”

You read that right. Do not adjust your computer screens. It isn’t abortion. Nor domestic violence. Nor sexual assault. Nor pay equity. Nor human rights. Nor misogyny. Nikki figures there’s nothing so dire, so potentially ruinous to Uncle Sam’s wives and daughters, sisters and mothers as the grave menace that is the Female Transgender Athlete.

“I’m going to fight for girls all day long because strong girls become strong women,” Nikki vowed during the first Republican presidential candidate natter on Fox earlier this week. “Strong women become strong leaders and biological boys don’t belong in the locker rooms of any of our girls.”

One suspects that Nikki doesn’t actually give a damn about five school kids taking part in a foot race in Bugtussle, Ark., but anything to gain political clout at the expense of a minority group.

Besides, she wasn’t flying solo in the Fox squawk with seven other would-be commanders-in-chief. They all made like so many Paul Revere’s, yelping, “The trans are coming! The trans are coming!” to warn the masses about the invasion of FTAs on America’s playing fields. Senator Tim Scott declared, “If God made you a man, you play sports against men,” and Florida’s “don’t say gay” governor Ron DeSantis mumbled something about “gender ideology” and “We need education in this country, not indoctrination.” (I find it odd that DeSantis refuses to allow Floridian children to learn about gender and sexual orientation, yet he can’t shut up about gays and transgender people.)

At any rate, the great attack of Political Right Forces vs. the FTA wasn’t restricted to politicos, with wrinkled rockers Carlos Santana and Alice Cooper joining the fray.

“When God made you and me—before we came out of the womb, you know who you are and what you are,” said Santana, the great guitar guru. “Later on, when you grow out of it, you see things, and you start believing that you could be something that sounds good, but you know it ain’t right. Because a woman is a woman and a man is a man. That’s it. Whatever you wanna do in the closet, that’s your business. I’m OK with that.”

What say you, Alice Cooper? (And yes, I appreciate the irony of a guy who uses a girl’s name waging war against “biological boys” with girls’ names.)

“I’m understanding that there are cases of transgender, but I’m afraid that it’s also a fad, and I’m afraid there’s a lot of people claiming to be this just because they want to be that,” Alice said. “It’s gone now to the point of absurdity.”

(Quick side note: School’s out for Alice, because Vampyre Cosmetics announced that “Alice doesn’t work here anymore” scant days after the shock rocker said nasty things about transgender individuals. Yup, they dumped him like he was Pete Best (look it up, kids).

I can’t say how much, if any, sway these rock-and-roll relics hold, but they’re part of the anti-trans mob fronted by politicos who insist they’re on the side of the angels and only they can prevent the total annihilation of female sports by the trans swarm.

Well, let’s do some math:

According to a 2022 report from the Williams Institute at the University of California, Los Angeles School of Law, more than 1.3 million American adults (aged 18+) identify as transgender, 515,200 of them female. If one-third of those women participates in competitive sports, that’s 171,733, or 0.05 per cent of the U.S. population.

What about kids sports? Data approximates there are 300,000 transgender youth in the U.S. If one third is female, one-third of whom participate in competitive school sports, we have 33,333 Female Transgender Athletes in middle or high school. Or 0.009 per cent.

That’s what all the alarmist squawking is about? Apparently, 0.05/0.009 per cent is going to drop an apocalyptic bomb on female sports? Hmmm. With that kind of power, Commander-in-Chief Joe Biden ought to send the FTAs to Russia and bring Vlad Putin to heel.

The notion that FTAs will lead to the extermination of female sports simply doesn’t jibe with the numbers, or reality. It’s an exercise in myth-building.

Renee Richards was supposed to bring the Women’s Tennis Association tour to its knees when she arrived at the U.S. Open in 1977, but she never won a singles tournament in five years and the WTA didn’t get sucked into a black hole. Ditto golf, where just last year Hailey Davidson sought an LPGA Tour card. She didn’t get out of Q school, because more than 100 cis women were too good.

Mianne Bagger and Bobbi Lancaster were two other transgender women who played pro golf. Women are still teeing it up. Emily Bridges cycled. Women are still hopping on bikes. Fallon Fox fought in MMA. Women continue to step into the octagon. Tifanny Abreu plays pro women’s volleyball in Brazil. Etcetera, etcetera.

Yet the myth-builders persist, spreading their fear across the globe and knowing many among the masses will ignore evidence, the way a teenager ignores curfew.

But I’ll leave you with this sound bite from former British tennis pro Sue Barker, who found herself across the net from Renee Richards back in the day:

“It didn’t become the story which a lot of people thought it might become,” she told BBC Sport. “She just melted into the tour and didn’t dominate. She won matches and she lost matches. It didn’t alter the game as some predicted. But she achieved what she wanted to do, to play professionally as a woman and was welcomed by the vast majority.”

Nothing to fear.

Will the last female transgender athlete to leave the arena please turn out the lights?

Once upon a lifetime, I played chess.

I wasn’t very good at it, not like those clever kids who can play, and win, multiple games simultaneously, but I once managed to register a stalemate vs. the most basic of chess computers (at the third-lowest level) in the 1970s, when I was no longer a kid.

That modest achievement failed to arrest the attention of world champion Bobby Fischer, and I took his indifference as a clear signal that I best not give up my day job, which was mostly a night job writing and editing sports copy at the Winnipeg Tribune. The pawns, the knights and the rooks would have to get along without me, and I without them.

Until this past week, I hadn’t devoted much ponder to chess since then, the exception being in the 1990s when Garry Kasparov went mano-a-machine vs. Deep Blue, an IBM computer.

Kasparov, at that time world No. 1, whupped Deep Blue in their initial six-game test (4-2), but the computer exacted revenge in the rematch (3½-2½ ). Their two exchanges generated headlines globally, even in the sports sections of some newspapers, and the brainiacs of board games had their 15 minutes of fame.

Fast forward to another century, which is to say the here and now.

Chess is once again generating headlines because the International Chess Federation (FIDE) has ruled that transgender females have “no right” to join in the checkmate fun. At least not in FIDE-sanctioned women’s competition. They can play vs. the dudes (or a computer, one supposes) but the damsels are off limits.

“In the event that the gender was changed from a male to a female the player has no right to participate in official FIDE events for women until further FIDE’s decision is made. Such decision should be based on further analysis and shall be taken by the FIDE Council at the earliest possible time, but not longer than within 2 (two) years period,” is how FIDE worded it in the updated handbook.

The Lords of Checkmate provide no explanation for their puzzling posture, leaving us to conclude that they believe biological women are too daft to match strategy with their transgender foes or men. Can you say misogyny and transphobia, kids?

But wait. FIDE vows to gather deep “research evidence” on the matter, like mulling the benefits of a Sicilian or Scandinavian Defence, but in reality they’ll give it no more thought than the breakfast menu at McDonald’s.

After all, what’s to learn? They’ve already joined the nasty and relentless anti-transgender lobby and pushed it into a new lane, from the physical to the cerebral. Instead of yelping that transgender females are bigger, faster and stronger, FIDE is now inferring that cis women are lacking a full load of hay in the loft.

How FIDE plans to prove that a great gap in grey matter exists is a mystery, but I’m guessing they’ll cobble together a group of people with egg-shaped heads and their findings will be as hair-brained as the chess ban. Little wonder US Chess along with federations in England, Germany, France and Finland have given thumbs down to the FIDE policy and will continue to welcome transgender players.

“While we do take FIDE policies into consideration, we independently establish our own policies and procedures,” US Chess Senior Director of Stategic Communication Daniel Lucas told The Messenger.

Here’s the reality of the situation:

The Lords of Checkmate want transgender females included in their game like Donald Trump wants another sheriff with a subpoena knocking on his door.

FIDE doesn’t actually believe transgender females have more smarts than cis women. That’s pure rubbish and insulting in the extreme. And they know it. But they, like so many sports groups ahead of them in the monkey see-monkey do, anti-trans queue, want trans chess players to know their proper place, just as the lords of rowing and rugby and swimming and cycling and World Athletics, etc. have already done. And like more than 20 U.S. states that have enacted laws to have them exiled.

In the anti-trans lobbyist’s perfect world, the Gender Police would gather all the female transgender athletes and ship them off to a remote locale, the way the British did with their dispensable nogoodniks in the 1700s/1800s. Or perhaps they’d rather create transgender colonies, where the sports lepers can run and jump and move their knights and rooks in anonymity.

Ridiculous? Of course. But no more illogical than the notion biological females were given partial portions when brains were passed out.

I now wonder what sports governing body will next join the anti-trans lobby, because there are people in positions of power and influence who won’t be satisfied until the transgender female athlete in women’s competition is extinct.

Perhaps it will be the World Pool-Billiard Association. After all, there are striking similarities between chess and, say, 8-ball. Neither is physically demanding, since it takes only marginally more strength to push those 15 little balls around a patch of green cloth than it does to slide a Bishop diagonally across a chess board to capture the Queen. And a cue weighs what, 17-21 ounces? Why, that’s barely bigger than the swizzle stick in a FIDE board member’s cocktail glass.

But here’s where the transgender female pool sharks might find themselves at risk: 8-ball is very much a matter of mind. There’s decision-making. Tactics. Creativity. Problem-solving. Ruthless attitude. You know, the same as chess.

The Lords of 8-Ball might see that as a recipe for banishment.

Go ahead and say it won’t happen—that it will never happen—but who would have thought that FIDE, with its immense, superior man brains (61 of 72 officials’ positions are occupied by dudes), would be so dense as to be duped into doing the anti-trans lobby’s dirty work.

Talk about pawns.

Let’s talk about Ivan Provorov’s ol’ time religion and a God-awful lesson to learn

Now that the thunder-clap clatter has eased to a murmur, what are the lessons learned from L’Affaire Rainbow?

Well, we learned that the Philadelphia Flyers stand by their Russian Orthodox employees, because rearguard Ivan Provorov received not so much as a mild tsk-tsk for skipping out on a pregame warmup last Tuesday night.

While his playmates adorned themselves in rainbow-colored garments and wrapped the blades of their hockey sticks in rainbow-colored tape to signal support for the LGBT(etc.) community on Pride Night, Provorov remained in the Flyers changing room, alone in his gay-is-sin thoughts as his playmates participated in the 15-minute frolic.

Provorov later cited his old-time religion as the reason for his refusal to play Mr. Dressup, telling news snoops: “I respect everybody, I respect everybody’s choices. My choice is to stay true to myself and my religion.”

Oddly enough (but probably not surprising), the Russian Orthodox rearguard refused to elaborate on his choice of religion over rainbow, perhaps because further discussion might have been a bit dodgy, if not prickly. News snoops might have asked Provorov about Patriarch Kirill of Moscow and All Rus’, a man who believes a) his buddy Vlad (The Bad) Putin is a “miracle of God,” b) the Russian invasion of Ukraine is necessary to prevent an eastern-advancing scourge of gay Pride parades, and c) same-sex marriage is “a sin” and similar to “apartheid in Africa or Nazi laws.” Apparently, those are talking points Provorov would rather avoid.

Whatever, his true-to-religion soundbite was sufficient for Philly head coach, John Tortorella (“Provy did nothing wrong”), the organization (“The Flyers will continue to be strong advocates for inclusivity”) and the National Hockey League (“Players are free to decide which initiatives to support”). In other words, nothing to see here, kids.

So that’s another lesson learned: If an NHL player wishes to opt out of a team theme night (Pride, Military, Black Lives Matter, Indigenous, etc.), he need only dust off religious dogma to avoid the sin bin, and we have to assume that’s all-inclusive, meaning it’s an easy out available not only to Russian Orthodox but also Catholics, Protestants, Jews, Muslims, Buddhists, Hindus, etc. (I suppose an atheist would have to come up with a different angle, but I don’t know.)

L’Affaire Rainbow also reminded us that news snoops are quick to rally and kick up a mighty fuss, yet they’re just as lickety-split in finding a new toy to chew on.

I mean, opinionists hither and yon spent three days in full and loud yowl, most of them pooh-poohing Provorov and suggesting an appropriate level of punishment, like deportation to the bosom of Mother Russia or listening to Barry Manilow music 24/7. I swear, we haven’t heard the jock journo machine rage like this since two of its heroes, Bobby Orr and Jack Nicklaus, pledged unwavering devotion to Donald Trump.

Yet, today, mention of Provorov’s work clothing is scant and has been pushed to the back pages of sports sections and the back half of news programs.

But here’s what the scribes and talking heads are ignoring: How many Ivan Provorovs are in the NHL? One per team? Two? Five? Surely he isn’t a lone wolf.

The jock journos decline to pursue the issue for one basic reason: They aren’t gay. Thus they can’t relate and don’t care. They’ve delivered a good and proper bawling out to Provorov, positioning themselves as LGBT(etc.) allies, so they harbor no compulsion for a deep dive into the matter.

Similarly, NHL Commissioner Gary Bettman wants no portion of any anti-gay discussion, unless it provides him an opportunity to apply a coating of sugar.

“When you look at all of our players and the commitments that they’ve made to social causes and to making our game welcoming and inclusive, let’s focus on the 700 that embrace it and not one or two that may have some issues for their own personal reasons,” he told news snoops the other day.

Sure, Gary, and let’s focus on all the banks Bonnie and Clyde didn’t rob.

Perhaps some reminders would be appropriate right about now…

  • In January 2014, TSN ran a three-part documentary, RE/ORIENTATION, which attempted to pry the lid off the issue of gays in hockey.

“We struggled to get participation from players,” said series host Aaron Ward, a former NHL defenceman and TSN talking head. “Over a nine-month period, we reached out to 12 different National Hockey League teams. (We) could not get co-operation. It was a struggle to get guys to sit down and be comfortable and honest in front of a camera. Obviously, it’s easy to sit down and read words for a PSA, but it’s another thing to sit down and be honest and in-depth and be clear about how we feel about this process and this issue. It’s almost a barometer of where we are today.”

Nine months. Twelve teams. That’s more than 200 players. And only three—Andrew Ference, Ben Scrivens and Dustin Brown—agreed to a formal, on-the-record natter. None of the three are in the NHL today.

  • Last month, Hockey Canada revealed results of a study into incidents of on-ice discrimination across all levels and age groups during the 2021-22 season. There were 512 penalties called, 61 per cent involving sexual orientation or gender. Males accounted for 99 per cent of the fouls.

Some of those male shinny scofflaws might grow up to perform in the NHL, which, with its shoulder shrug in L’Affaire Rainbow, has given players the official okey-dokey to go rogue and show the LGBT(etc.) collective, or any marginalized group of their choice, the cold shoulder. They can be just like Ivan Provorov. All they need do is flash a rosary or spew the Lord’s Prayer, then wait out the brief media storm.

What a God-awful lesson to learn.

The screamers scream while scientists/medics try to find the proper fit for transgender athletes

First of all, being transgender doesn’t make one an all-knowing sage capable of solving the planet’s most-pressing problems, or even those on the back burner.

Second, I’m not a scientist/doctor, so finding a fit for transgender female athletes is above my pay grade.

And, finally, if the world is about to implode, most likely it will be on account of evil Vladimir Putin doing something irrational, not whatever Lia Thomas does or does not accomplish in a swimming pool.

Lia Thomas

Yet we continue to hear and read apocalyptic bombast, the latest suggestion of end times found in the scribblings of Dan Wootton, an opinionist with The Daily Mail in London and a man who believes in getting right to the point. His lede on a recent column:

“This weekend the world finally woke up and realized politically correct monsters who don’t give a damn about anything other than advancing a hard left ideology are perilously close to wiping out women’s sport for good. The incongruous image of University of Pennsylvania swimmer Lia Thomas—the first transgender athlete to win the NCAA title in the women’s 500-yard freestyle—towering over the biologically female runner-up while being booed by the Atlanta crowd sums up the total madness of our times.”

Wootton later tossed in a reference to the “woke mob” and called for an “uprising” before female sports is reduced to a frolic for “sub-par biological males.”

Oh my. “Monsters” and “madness.” A “mob” and an “uprising.” Little wonder state politicos in Florida don’t want school teachers telling the kiddies about sexual orientation and gender identity. They’re just protecting the urchins from all those gay bogeymen/bogeywomen, don’t you know.

All because Lia Thomas won a college swim race.

But here’s where Wootton truly went off the rails: He consulted one person to prop up his end-days argument—Caitlyn Jenner.

Women and men who wear lab coats and squint into microscopes and hang medical diplomas on their office walls wrestle with the notion of fairness in sports, vis-a-vis transgender female athletes, and various governing bodies follow the scientists’ findings. Or they ignore the experts and make up their own rules, depending on the mood du jour and Caster Semenya’s testosterone levels.

Caster is not transgender. She’s a natural-born woman, except some in the athletics world weren’t (and probably still aren’t) convinced, thus they had squints put the South African runner under a microscope and ultimately decided that they would permit her to toe the line in some races but sit and watch others.

So if the decision-makers don’t know where a natural-born woman fits in, who’s qualified to make the call on transgender athletes?

Wootton believes it’s Jenner. He just “had to” have a natter with the world-renowned trans diva, as if a pair of store-bought boobs somehow transformed her into a savant with unparalleled insight.

“I think to be honest with you they’ve got to change the rules. We need a fair playing field. And right now, if we allow this, it’s not a fair playing field,” Jenner told Wootton. “I am firmly behind protecting women’s sports. We cannot have biological boys competing against women.”

Well, okay, except not so long ago Jenner was singing from a different sheet in the songbook.

“I think every trans person, if they’re into athletics, should have an opportunity to compete and to improve themselves,” she told Outsports in 2020. “I think sports is such a great way to learn a lot about yourself. And yeah, I want to, hopefully they’ll have the opportunity in the future to do whatever they can do. I’m all for it. I’m all for it.”

So let’s be clear on something: Caitlyn Jenner doesn’t open her cake hole without first sticking up a finger to determine which direction the wind is blowing. What Kitty Cait tells an LGBT(etc.) website isn’t what she tells Fox News, not to mention the rabble when seeking the governor’s office in California. She is an entitled transgender woman with a multi-million-dollar bankroll and whose home base is a Malibu mansion. Last time I checked, she is not a scientist/doctor, nor has she played one on any of her dopey reality TV shows. Her lived transgender experience has been a clownish ruse.

Yet this is who Wootton sought for insight, perhaps because she might be the only transgender person he has on speed dial. But it’s like hiring Tiger Woods to teach driving lessons.

Both Wootton and Jenner are entitled to their opinions, of course, and you can agree with them if you like. But to put it in terms of monsters and madness and mobs and uprisings? A bit much, don’t you think? I mean, Vladimir Putin is a monster. His Russian army is a mob. The transgender people I know aren’t trying to hurt anyone.

And let’s remember one thing about Thomas and the recent NCAA swim meet: She competed in two other races, the 200- and 100-freestyles. She finished fifth in one and last in the other.

Some speculate that she tanked, but there’s been no evidence to support that theory.

Just as there’s no evidence that the end days for female sports is nigh due to an imagined tsunami of biologically born male bogeymen-turned-bogeywomen.

Numerous people imagined, and said, the same when Renee Richards stepped on-court at the Orange Lawn Tennis Club in New Jersey, and advanced to the semifinals of her first professional tournament in 1976. Yet here we are today, almost half a century later, and there’s been no sign of a second transgender player on the women’s tour.

Richards reached as high as world No. 20. Perhaps one day Thomas will be an Olympian. I suppose that depends on who’s making, breaking or ignoring the rules.

In the meantime, screamers will scream and pretend to have the answers that not even the experts have.

The see no evil, hear no evil, speak no evil of the Chicago Silent Seven

I was perched on a stool in a local watering hole a few years back, silently observing and absorbing the goings-on and the banter of a late-afternoon gathering.

At one point, I took note of a man standing at one hem of the crowded bar. He struck me as quite frumpy…short and squat with baggy, wrinkled clothing and a face in want of a razor blade and a scrubbing. He was also fidgety, his eyes constantly darting to a fro about the room. He took a long pull on his bottle of beer, plunked it down on the bar, then turned and wobbled in my direction.

As he passed by on the way to the men’s washroom, he reached out with his right hand and grabbed my right breast, giving it a firm squeeze.

“What do you think you’re doing?” I yelped, loud enough for my voice to reach the barman’s ears.

“I don’t normally do that,” the cad answered, “but I’ve had three or four beer and I wanted to see if your tits are real.”

That’s sexual assault.

While Mr. Grabby Hands staggered off to relieve himself, I approached the barman to report what had just happened and was informed, “He’s almost done. I’ll let him finish his beer, then ask him to leave.” Sure enough, he returned to his roost at the bar and was allowed to loiter until he had squeezed the last drop from his bottle of brown pop.

That’s sexual assault ignored.

And, as the Chicago Blackhawks, the National Hockey League, the NHL Players Association and numerous other sports organizations have discovered, expecting or hoping sexual assault to disappear like summer wages is folly in the extreme.

In the case of the Blackhawks, whereby one-time video coach Brad Aldrich (allegedly) sexually assaulted one-time top prospect Kyle Beach in 2010, the fallout from a long-held, dirty, little secret has been extreme, with high-profile jobs lost, reputations tarnished, an Original Six NHL franchise in tatters, and legal hearings on the docket (unless the matter is settled out of court).

To date, of the seven men made aware of the Aldrich trespass at a May 2010 meeting, only Kevin Cheveldayoff has been spared the rod, and I’ve been wrestling with that since NHL commissioner Gary Bettman absolved the current Winnipeg Jets general manager of responsibility.

Bettman reasoned that, because Cheveldayoff was assistant GM in Chitown at the time and, thus, junior management, there’s no dirt under his nails. He is forgiven for his silence in 2010 and the ensuing 11 years.

“What did you expect Chevy to do?” many have asked. “Would you have spoken up to your superiors if you’d been in his position?”

Actually, yes. Absolutely. Been there, done that.

The personal incident I described above wasn’t a one-off. I’ve been sexually assaulted, harassed and/or ridiculed more often than the Pope prays and, unlike the Chicago Silent Seven, I’ve never been shy about acting on or speaking against wrong-doing. Most often, and most unfortunately, my gripes were met with victim-blaming and I’d be told to “grow a thicker skin.” But I continued to speak up.

Similarly, when I see or hear objectionable behaviour or language, I call out the offenders.

Again, a number of years back in a local establishment, every third word that tumbled from a patron’s mouth was an N-bomb, and he wasn’t speaking in whispered tones. The barman turned a deaf ear to it all.

“Excuse me,” I said after the third or fourth N-bomb exploded, “but we don’t use that kind of language in here.”

“I’m from L.A.,” the patron told me. “That’s the way we talk down there.”

“Well it’s not how we talk up here in Victoria and it’s definitely not how we talk in this nightclub.”

That was the end of the N-bombs.

I’ve experienced similar non-niceties in the workplace, and I once called out my boss’ husband for boorish behaviour that brought me to tears. It was a risky gambit, knowing I was a lowly sales clerk and my complaint could lead directly to the pogey queue (do not pass go, do not collect $200). She spoke with him, he confessed to his shameful deeds, and I continued to collect a paycheque. Oh, and she never scheduled us to work together again.

It’s sometimes preferable to exercise our right to remain silent, but that’s usually reserved for people in handcuffs, not those whose rights, values and dignity are being trampled.

So don’t be like the Chicago Silent Seven. Speak up, for yourself or others.

Diversity: Sports sections of daily newspapers still stuck in the 20th century

It happens every time a story with social significance spills into the playground, as was the case last week with Carl Nassib of the Las Vegas Raiders outing himself.

Sports scribes seized the moment, like West Coast grizzlies at the annual salmon run, and they went on a feeding frenzy, feverishly tapping opinion pieces favorable to Nassib, the first openly gay man to be included on an active National Football League roster. But their essays, although well-intentioned, were chock-full of assumptive generalities and shy on first-person perspective.

The wordsmiths wrote on auto pilot, as if following a template.

Nassib is brave. Check. Nassib is courageous. Check. Nassib is an inspiration. Check. Bravo for Nassib. Check.

It’s all meant as high praise, yet, in reality, it’s the piling on of platitudes.

And there’s a reason for that: They don’t know any better.

I mean, the rarest of species in major North American professional team sports is the openly gay male. There have been more confirmed sightings of Elvis, Sasquatch and Amelia Earhart. There is one at present, Carl Nassib. There’s never been more than one at any given time.

But the second rarest species is the openly gay sports scribe (newspaper division), male or female.

LZ Granderson

A handful exist in the United States—LZ Granderson of the Los Angeles Times most notable among them, and transgender female Christina Kahrl is the freshly minted sports editor of the San Francisco Chronicle—but I don’t know of any LGBT(etc.) writers working at dailies on the northern side of the vast, still-blockaded border.

I spent 30 years in the rag trade, shutting down in 1999, and any gay person scribbling sports during my time was coal miner deep into the closet.

So, if we do the math, there’s not been an out gay jock journo at a major daily in Canada in more than half a century. Perhaps not ever.

Even as we hear more female voices and see more Blacks and people of color on our TV sports networks, the toy departments in the rag trade remain stuck in the muck of the 20th century, like an old jalopy spinning its wheels in a ditch.

When I took my leave from the business in ’99, both dailies in Winnipeg had a female scribbling sports. Today there are zero. There were no out gays then, there are no out gays now. There were no Blacks or people of color, there are zero today.

It’s much the same across the oft-frozen tundra. Sports sections at daily newspapers don’t do diversity.

Thus, when Carl Nassib comes out or Black athletes rise in protest of social injustice or another woman is beaten up/sexually assaulted, the scribes are at a disadvantage. Because they aren’t gay, Black or female, they’re incapable of drilling to the numb of the matter.

I mean, the very notion of straight men explaining what Nassib’s coming out means to the LGBT(etc.) collective and/or society is the highest level of absurd. It’s like having Tiger Woods for a driving instructor.

Therefore they traffic in platitudes, which comes across as trendy, if not patronizing.

Christina Kahrl

When Nassib said he “agonized” for 15 years—more than half his time on this planet—before coming out, those of us in the LGBT(etc.) collective got it. Fully. It’s why some of us, including myself, were moved to tears. We’ve felt the searing pain of the suffocating inner strife. We’ve lived the fear of losing/being denied employment or lodgings. We’ve lived the fear of losing friends and family. We’ve lived the fear of bullying and worse. We know what it’s like to be told conversion therapy will “cure” us. We know what it’s like to hear the Vatican refuse to bless our marriages because gay sex is a “sin.” We know the humility of being scorned and refused service. All that based solely on our preference in life/sexual partners and/or gender identity.

So, yes, we know Carl Nassib’s story because it’s our story. And we can tell it.

Sadly, sports editors across the land are not inclined toward giving diverse voices a share of their platform. They’re quite comfortable allowing straight, white, mostly male scribes to opine with an outlier perspective on stories that can only be told with LGBT, Black, or female insight earned through lived experience.

The irony, of course, is that numerous sports editors and scribes are quick to condemn the lack of diversity in, say, the National Hockey League and NASCAR, or at Augusta National Golf Club—and they’ll shame others for failing to promptly rise in protest against social and racist injustice—yet they don’t see a very white, very straight, very male business in their own mirror.

Sorry, but you can’t be part of the solution unless you recognize yourself as part of the problem.

We should care about Carl Nassib because he might have saved a life

Carl Nassib

Carl Nassib is gay and many among the rabble say they don’t care.

We know this because they rushed to their keyboards on Monday and used various social media platforms to confirm they don’t care, which would indicate that they do, in fact, care.

I mean, if you truly don’t give a tinker’s damn that the National Football League has its first active openly gay player, you don’t become a keyboard warrior and insert your two cents worth of opinion into a discussion you claim to have no interest in.

Question is: Why should anyone care?

We are, after all, into the third decade of the 21st century and you’d think by now a gay man coming out would be your basic dog-bites-man story. Which is to say, no story at all.

Except that isn’t the way it shakes down, even in the year 2021.

Sue Bird and Megan Rapinoe

In female sports—professional/amateur, team/individual—gay athletes are as commonplace as fresh bread in a bake shop. They have won WNBA championships, they have won tennis Grand Slam tournaments, they have harvested Olympic medals of three different hues. They become power couples (see hoops legend Sue Bird and soccer star Megan Rapinoe). They get married (see U.S. national footy team members Ali Kreiger and Ashly Harris). They have kids (see hockey stars Meghan Duggan and Gillian Apps/Julie Chu and Caroline Ouellette).

A female athlete coming out is generally met with a shrug of the shoulders, in part due to the antiquated and misguided assumption that any girl/women who chooses to participate in “manly” sports like hoops and hockey must be lesbian.

Male jocks, on the other hand, operate in a different world. No, check that. They roam a different galaxy.

There have been 15 gay or bisexual players in the NFL, all coming out post-career until Nassib dropped his bombshell via Instagram. Glenn Burke was out to everyone in Major League Baseball in the 1970s, but it was hush-hush beyond the ballpark. The National Basketball Association has featured one active openly gay player, Jason Collins, while others came out post-career. Major League Soccer has had two out players, while the National Hockey League has never known an openly gay player, past or present.

That’s it. Approximately two dozen gays in North America’s top five men’s pro sports leagues. All-time.

But, again, why should anyone care?

Well, try this: It’s quite possible (probable?) that Carl Nassib saved a life when he came out on Monday.

There’s an LGBT(etc.) kid out there who was feeling abandoned and alone, a kid on the edge, a kid convinced he/she couldn’t take another dose of the bullying and mental torment that so many gay youth experience and endure. He/she wasn’t simply prepared to quit sports, suicide seemed like an option with merit.

Then along comes Nassib, a stud of a man—6-feet-7, 275 pounds—and a defensive lineman with the Las Vegas Raiders, after previous tours of duty with the Cleveland Browns and Tampa Bay Buccaneers.

Suddenly the light of hope radiates.

Too dramatic for you? Not really. I was that kid in the 1950s and ’60s.

That kid today has a name, we just don’t know it yet. But we might hear from him/her one day when he/she becomes a doctor, a lawyer, a political leader, a college prof or a sports writer and they point to Nassib’s bold decision as the reason they didn’t surrender to those who hate.

And, be sure, Nassib’s coming out wasn’t as simple a task as folding laundry. It never is.

The Raiders DE said he “agonized” over this decision for 15 years, and anyone in the LGBT(etc.) collective will nod knowingly, because it tends to be a lengthy struggle, one that can gnaw at you for years, like a dog on a chew toy. It plants the seeds of alienation, abandonment, rejection and self-loathing, all filed under ‘F’ for fear.

Thus, for Nassib to come out while active in the Goliath of macho men’s team sports, that’s ballsy.

Make no mistake, Nassib isn’t anyone’s idea of an NFL Pro Bowler. He’s listed third on the Raiders depth chart at right DE. But he can still serve as a Pied Piper to those who remain in the closet, even if he isn’t interested in becoming the feature attraction in a media circus.

Unlike Michael Sam after he’d been drafted by the St. Louis Rams, Nassib doesn’t seem inclined toward an appearance on Dancing with the Stars or being dogged by Oprah’s cameras.

“I’m a pretty private person so I hope you guys know that I’m really not doing this for attention,” he said. “I just think that representation and visibility are so important. I actually hope that one day, videos like this and the whole coming out process are not necessary, but until then I am gonna do my best and do my part to cultivate a culture that’s accepting that’s compassionate.”

Sometimes it only takes one, and hopefully Carl Nassib is the right one for men’s pro sports.